Relationships counselors will charge you hefty fees, but will probably never come close to the unconventional methods when they advise you. They are more likely going to tell you to move on , forget your ex boyfriend and that you are much better off without him. What if you still loved your ex? What if you had a chance to get back together? Would you just let him go like that because someone else says it’s best for you?
You deserve to be happy with the one you truly love and you shouldn’t let go easily. Love is a very complicated matter and when your cherished relationship with him is at risk you will act without thinking and do stupid things that will only push your ex further away. You may find yourself apologizing for things you didn’t do, or even worse, apologizing when it was not your fault at all. You must keep your dignity intact all the time. Even if you were wrong, you can admit your faults without losing dignity.
The unconventional methods to your ex boyfriend back are more like secret tactics where the guy won’t even realize that you are manipulating him to get back with you. Human psychology is not a mystery, nor is it something magical. It can instead be used to your own advantage in these situations. Certainly, it’s a very delicate matter. If you lose control you will mess up things even more. Many people actually play with human psychology without even realizing it. Those are the people who tend to think that they miraculously saved their relationship, when in fact, there is a science behind them getting back together.
To be able to get back your ex, you have to be around him more often. Most ex couples tend to avoid each other after a breakup, but you shouldn’t. You also should not act like you are hung up on him. You have to be normal, talk to him casually, and re-create situations that made him like you or fall in love with you. Peel off all the negative things he thinks about you and adopt only the positive things.
Before you go out and try to get him back, work on yourself first. You need to have your self-respect strong. You need to be able to control your emotions, even if you see him with another girl. You need to look at your best. And all the best.