Often after a breakup, whether it was you who wanted it or not, you often realize that you can’t let go of your ex. If that’s the case with you too, then be aware that it’s not too late to go out there and win your ex back. But be sure that it definitely won’t be easy. If you think you can just do a phone call and beg your ex to come back and that you will do everything to make it work, then you are very wrong.
In fact, if you show it to your ex how desperate you are, then he will know that he can get you whenever he wants and won’t be interested in doing any kind of efforts to make your relationship work. Even after a breakup, you should be a little hard to get. You must instead show your ex how you are the only right choice without begging.
Learn how to play with the basics of human psychology, such as curiosity, to attract him to you. You must put your ex in such a situation that he gets so curious that he won’t be able to resist getting in touch with you. Using the “no contact rule” is one of the best ways to make it happen.
Unfortunately, some people don’t want to cut all contacts with the ex, fearing that if they suddenly disappear, the ex will soon find someone else. Frankly, if your ex is the kind of person who can give your position to someone else in just a matter days, are you sure you want to spend the rest of your life with that person?
Before you can apply the “no contact rule”, you have to put yourself in the right state of mind. Do whatever it takes to get out of that depressed state and be happy again. Your ex is only part of your life, not your whole life. Go out and enjoy life with your friends and family. Go on a vacation to somewhere you always wanted to go. Start a new hobby that you always wanted to do. You can even pamper yourself with all the stuffs you’ve been wanting to buy since a while. Just divert your mind off the breakup.
These are just a few steps to get an ex back, but there is so much more techniques that can be applied. No matter what your situation you are in right now, there is most probably a chance for you to get your ex back.