How can I persuade my ex-girlfriend to take me back? If you are wallowing in this dilemma and you are looking for a good strategy to regain her love, the first thing that you should do is understand the cause of your break up. Did your girlfriend dump you because you were being unfaithful? Was it because of your bad habits? Did she fall out of love because of boredom or because of your uncaring ways? After you have outlined the foregoing facts and understood where you have gone wrong, apologize for your mistakes in a friendly manner. For instance, you can send her a card for her birthday, highlighting how much you valued your relationship and that though you respect her decision; you are willing to change for the better.
Time heals all wounds. Even though you might feel hopeless and that life might never be the same after a break up, never show your ex that you are an emotional wreck, if you intend to win her back. For example, instead of nagging her with calls and or flooding her mobile with spam messages, give her time to heal. Concentrate on improving yourself as a person, rather than showing up at her doorstep and or office every day, hoping that you will drive her back into your arms. Generally, if you pressurize your ex to get back with you after a tough break up, you will only drive her further away from you, and finally lose her to another man.
If you are trying to persuade your ex-girlfriend to take you back, you should give her a reason to find you interesting again. This is not as hard as it sounds. Before you contact or schedule a meeting with an ex-girlfriend that you are trying to win over, take time to rediscover yourself. Join a club to explore new experiences. You should also engage in a leisurely activity to your liking to clear your mind off your troubles, boost your health, and improve your personality. You can also take life courses in an institution in your locality to learn how to start an interesting conversation and how to make yourself appealing to the opposite gender. Finally, never pour old wine in a new wine skin. Buy gym membership to tone your body. Small changes to your physical appearance (haircut, dressing) will also score you some much-needed points.
After you have acknowledged your flaws, rediscovered yourself, and feeling ready to restore communication with your ex-girlfriend, invite her out as a friends. You must show her that you are a changed person and that you are worthy of her love by doing the following: first, keep your conversation short and interesting. People who keep their conversations long tend to stray off course, and rarely win back their exs. Second, never discuss old relationship issues or topics that can heighten friction or spark arguments when you are out with your ex-girlfriend. Try to restore your lost bliss, not create a wider rift between the two of you. Finally, be well-mannered. Although it might be tempting to flirt at your first meeting, stay formal. If you follow a plan, the girl who dumped you will invite you for a second date, where you can discuss particulars of your relationship in detail.