When it comes to getting your ex (lover) back, you definitely don’t want to rely solely on luck to make it happen. Of course, if you sit down and think about it, you will surely come up with a couple of ways to get back with an ex. But, are those tested and proven methods that you have thought about?
Do you want to risk losing your ex for good by using guesswork?
Certainly not! Your ex is your love and you wouldn’t be here if you didn’t want that love back. Therefore, it’s better for you that you make use of indirect persuasion techniques to improve your chances at reversing the breakup.
What NOT to do…
Very often, people who go through a breakup and are still in love with the ex, will resort to desperate measures to “persuade” the ex to come back. Begging, crying and any other forms of desperation will do no good to your already shaky relationship. In fact, you will be showing your ex that you are at his/her mercy and he/she can use you as a puppet anytime.
You must AVOID this situation at any cost.
At best, you will be getting back with your ex out of pity, not out of love. How long do you think your relationship will last then? A few weeks or months only. You will eventually breakup again, and the pain you are feeling now will be back again. We don’t want you to go through all this ever again.
If you want to be back with your ex for good, you will have to rebuild your relationship the strong way.
What you MUST do…
You must convince your ex “indirectly” to come back.
Suppose your ex comes to you and tell you he/she will change from now on. Will that statement alone convince you? Or you would be somewhat skeptical about it? You would be skeptical and not convinced, and that’s actually normal. It’s not easy to directly convince a person of something.
On the other hand, convincing someone “indirectly” about something is more effective and that person would be less skeptical.
How to use Indirect Persuasion Techniques?
People tend to believe what they see more than what they hear. Therefore, instead of telling about your intentions, show them in action.
Be consistent in your efforts. If you have decided to do something which requires regular and consistent effort, you shouldn’t just stop after a few days. You will have to keep going. Remember, it’s for the good of your relationship.
Get rid of the negativity in you and show your positive attitude. Whatever your ex disliked about you and you are willing to change, go ahead change it and let your ex notice that about you.
There are many more such techniques you can use to get your ex back. If you want to have your best shot at rebuilding your broken relationship, you will need to be fully prepared.