There are many possible steps to actually undo a breakup, and most of them will work successfully if you know what you are going. That’s why it is very important for you to be away of all the steps you have to go through before trying to get him back, based on your situation. Even if you get back your ex without going through all the necessary steps, it is very likely that your renewed relationship will not last for long. Seducing your ex is just one step, albeit a very effective one.
So, let’s learn how to seduce your ex boyfriend and undo a breakup…
No matter what may have caused your relationship to break up, it certainly was a very special one for you, otherwise you wouldn’t be here in search of a solution to fix your broken relationship. You ex boyfriend most likely felt the same about the relationship too. Therefore it’s not going to be an impossible case to try and seduce your ex boyfriend.
Seducing him is not just about using your looks to lure him. Certainly, you will have to look your best, better than when you were together. Portray yourself as an improved version of the woman he fell in love with. He did fall in love with you at one time, so how can he resist not falling for an improved version of the one he fell in love with.
If you happen to bump into each other at some place you both usually hang out at, it should not appear like you are forcibly trying to get his attention. He should naturally feel your presence. So, in trying to look good, you should also be careful not to overdo, or it will be obvious for him that you are overdoing to get his attention.
Now that you are single again and have a lot of free time, use this as an opportunity to work on yourself. For example, if you had a low self esteem, it’s time to work on that. Maybe you gained some kilos because you didn’t have time to go to the gym, so it’s time to hit the gym again. Maybe you had always wanted to do some stuffs or learn a new hobby, do them now. Basically, you need to do things that make you feel good. When you feel good on the inside, it’ll show on the outside.
On the other hand, if you are always sad, depressed and crying about the breakup, no matter how much you pretend to be happy on the outside, your ex boyfriend will probably figure it out that you are faking.
When you have successfully managed to get him attracted to you once again, it’s time to initiate conversation with him again. It’s probable that he’ll come talking to you himself, which indicates his interest. If he doesn’t come to you, you can always start a conversation yourself, keeping it short and casual. it is important that you avoid topics that will result in heated arguments. Your first conversation should not be about getting back together, it’s only meant to show your ex boyfriend how you have changed into a better person and letting him ponder on what he is losing by not having you in his life.
As mentioned before, the above is just one step towards undoing a breakup, there is much more to it than just seducing him.