Valentine’s Day is a very special occasion for most people in relationships. If you are single on this day, there is a great chance you may end up feeling very lonely. This is why a lot of people look for guidance when it comes to contacting their exes on this special day.
The question “Should I contact my ex on Valentine’s Day?” is very common as the day approaches. Contacting your ex on that day should however not be because you are afraid of being alone or your friends who are celebrating it will laugh at you. You should do it because you actually believe that your relationship has a chance of working out and the breakup was wrong. There are several things you can go through to determine whether or not to contact your ex on Valentine’s Day.
First and foremost, it is very important to consider why you broke up in the first place. You have to be careful though as it is very easy for your heart to soften and make you overlook something very serious when love is in the air everywhere. This is because it is human nature to want to feel loved, even more when you are seeing it all around you. Therefore, you should take time to really think about the issues that lead to your breakup before you contact your ex. After you have gone through the breakup and analyzed your relationship fully and reached to the conclusion that the issues that caused the split are actually stupid and not serious. That should be your green light to contact your ex and you should go ahead and try to win back your ex on Valentine’s Day.
Another thing that is very important to consider before you contact your ex is the possibility that he or she might has already moved on. The most common advice given by relationship experts after a breakup is for you to cut communication and work on improving yourself. They believe that this is the easiest and effective way to get your ex back. In most cases, this advice works but not always. This is because your ex may take the lack of communication as a sign that you moved on and move on as well. Therefore, if this was your intention or you have simply not talked for a while since your breakup, it is advisable to ensure he or she has not moved on before you get in touch out of the blue. It isn’t too hard to find a mutual friend that care for both of you and ask him if your ex is seeing someone else or not. If not, then calling your ex on Valentine’s Day may be a great idea and possible a first step for mending your broken relationship.
Last but not least, it is also important to know what you intend to say. Once you pick up that phone or start composing an email or whatever form of contact you intend to make, it is very important to know exactly what to say. This will prevent any form of awkwardness and will enable your ex to understand you. The best thing to say is the truth and it would be even better if you could anticipate the answer such that you can avoid the topics that will cause arguments.
Don’t hesitate to tell your ex that you miss all the great moments you had together and if you had a chance you would want to bring back those moments. Make sure to use words that will make him or her melt for you again. It is also important not to raise the past issues when you make the initial contact so that you can make a fresh start again.
If you still believe that you two are meant to be together, do not waste any more time, pick the phone and win your ex back today!