If you can’t deal with the lack of sex and the nagging is cheating the only way to save the marriage?
also men like to be treated special as women do once you get married that stops so is cheating the only way to cure this?
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This is one of the most vexing conundrums of marriage.
Here are some excerpts from the chapter on Fidelity:
"You are married to a woman who is not interested in meeting your physical needs yet are
prohibited from finding relief for those needs. This seems to be a fairly recent development
stemming from the social evolution which comes with an increasing population.
There was once a time where males were encouraged to pick one out of the herd and were
able to drag her by the hair back to the cave without recourse…….
Now given a woman’s new found equality the concept of fidelity has crept in. This seems to be a not so very veiled attempt to establish another level of control for women , of your sexuality, which was previously not available to them. "
"Once established as a method of control any deviation from that control mechanism is seem as undesirable.
One of the best ways to keep this control active is to label the activity as something bad, like cheating or infidelity."
"We all know that this desire to get our genetics widely dispersed is a natural evolutionary trait and the desire to keep a Man’s genetics so narrowly defined is counter to nature."
The conclusion to this problem is to remove the negative label and call it what it is, SIDE ACTION and view it as a necessary evolutionary condition.
It is the physical release that a Man needs to be able to exist in a life where society suggests fidelity.
We would be so much better off were we to accept this activity again.
sounds like something a typical man would use as an excuse to cheat, even though its the dumbest thing i have heard in awhile
Cheating is a good way to look like an untrustworthy chump.
If you’re contemplating cheating to get your needs met, then you need to talk to your spouse.
If they’re not willing to meet you half way, then there’s no sense staying married.
But if you’re the type that would rather sneak around behind your partners back, then you don’t need to be involved in any relationships.
Yes it is. That, or being drunk 24/7.
Cheating won’t help you or your sh!t-pit of a marriage. Just divorce her.
A way to cure it would be a playboy magazine, some KY, and a blow up doll, for your pleasure, ENJOY!
Cheating is a moral issue. It represents dishonesty and disrespect. Cheating is never the answer. Why would you stay in a relationship like the one you describe? Marriage is supppose to make you a better person, fulfill you, be rewarding and comforting. Its where you build your dreams and make them happen together. Its where you build a family and find support. LIsten to the song by brooks and dunn, Proud of the house we built.
dude…you know how women are. Once they find out you’re cheating in order to get some action they get mad and nag about THAT too…and still don’t put out like a good wife should!