Do you think the signs were there before the marriage? If you could do it again would you have stay married or never got married to your ex.
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I would have never gotten married. While I was married however I did try and try. I think that the signs are there but we don’t see them. Look at all the people posting here and they are not even married and already they have problems. Those are people who don’t want to see the signs. I also think that throughout the marriage your partner tells you that something is wrong and once again people don’t listen.
I am a born again Christian now and think differently than I did back then. If I had been a Christian before I was married the first time I probably would have never married the man that I did. I would have waited until the right man came along who I would have been equally yoked with. Looking back, I wish I had became a Christian while I was married and my marriage would have lasted. I would have prayed for my then husband and hoped he would have gotten saved too. I have a lot of regrets for not staying in my marriage, mainly my kids are one of the reasons.
I never would have married the man..we were married almost 20 years and I didn’t realize he could be so deceitful..He was a fine, Christian man with a stable (?) Christian family…2 weeks after we married, he told me that Friday nights were his Poker Night out with the boys…He never mentioned this before the marriage. Fine, I said…go have fun and relax…Over the years…the Poker Nights slowly turned to being gone all weekend and then he started "disappearing" for 3 or 4 days at a time. He would come home when he was broke and demanding money from me. When I panicked and asked him to tell me where he is going all the time..He would cuss at me and tell me it was none of my business.
He turned violent and I moved out..He was always a hot-head when he couldn’t get his way. Years later, that is when I caught him living with some skank he had met in a bar..Oh, he loved the Strip-clubs….and he stole money from his family and left me and the children penniless…I have forgiven him, through the Lord..but I would never trust my Life, my Money and my Happiness or safety to someone else again..You learn lessons the Hard way…Bless.