I need ideas on how to save my marriage, please hhelp, i have tried everything
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Communication is key. I’m big on this. People communicate in different ways. Thats one of the big things counselors focus on. You may communicate in a different way then your spouse does. Counseling could help. If you can’t get your spouse to do that, you could both start reading about healthy communication. Once lines are open, you’ll be able to identify problems and hopefully reach compromise. Good luck.
me too. i’m giving up. please just don’t do what most people do and come up with "investments", such as a new car, a dog or the worst, a baby… those things never stick a marriage together, they just make things harder. how long has this been going on? i’m with you and don’t worry, life can be great on your own. i am 24 and have been married for 4 years. its sad, but that’s life and there’s no point in being miserable.
be strong
well you have not said too much of how or what is wrong? well the first thing is he fooling around if hes found someone else there is no reason to save it. you can’t cause would you want to live with someone that loves someone else? nope is the answer. so therefore you have to move on. if you are having troubel and only you see it then it can’t be helped cause hes not trying and could care less. he feels ther eis not a problem a therapits could maybe help or minister priest or whatever but it has to be wanted by both of you take care
Save marriage?
Save marriage?
Hmmmmm….now why would you want to do that?
Try to freeze the account abt 3 or 4yrs and open another saving account without the card.
With nothing to give us a basis as to what the problem(s) is/are it is difficult to give advice. Generally, if both parties are willing to work on the marriage then all is not lost. But if only one of the two want the marriage to work is willing to work on it, it is very difficult to salvage the marriage. Write back and give us some details, or you can communicate directly with me and I’ll offer what advice I can based on the situation.
I find that open and honest communication between the two partners is the best place to start. Talking without getting defensive, hurt, upset, mean or whatever is hard to do but can be done as long as both are willing. But again need more info to help you specific situations.
I don’t know what’s wrong with your marriage, so it’s kind of hard to say how to save it, especially since you’ve tried everything. Maybe you guys could start dating again, once or twice a week. Romance each other. The only person you can change is yourself, so make the first move. Offer to give him a backrub, cook his favorite dinner, set up an awesome date to somewhere that he loves. Good luck.
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Hope this helps.
Sincerely,
Sarah