so we dated 2 months, she broke up with me saying she didn’t love me the same way, but she still loves me
well deep down I still love her, and I don’t know what to do
my friends say to ignore her, maybe it will make her think about her actions…but she calls me every night still as friends, but I want to be more
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Ignore her, once she knows what she has lost, she will come back and if she doesn’t then she is not worth loving. A lot of times we dint realize the significant moments in out lives while they are happening. Once we dint have it anymore we may want it back, or figure out we never needed it in the first place.
tell her how u feel and u cant get over it if she calls u everyday
watch forgetting sarah marshall.
fukk anything that moves.
If you’re for sure you two won’t be an item anymore, then I’d cut off contact altogether. It’s really hard to do, but you’ve only dated two months and there are plenty more fish in the sea who will love you the same way. Right now, she’s being unfair by keeping you on the hook while she may be looking for someone else.
Go to a bar. Get drunk. Get laid. Get a new girlfriend. Lather. Rinse. Repeat.
go out with her best friend, or wait and see if she ever feels that way about you again
take your time. Maybe you should tell her how you feel ? or maybe try some one new! "]
steven’s answer makes me laugh
no no no Iv have soooo done this before she does not wnat you but she doesnt want anyone else to have you so she keeps you in confused mode.
She is probably going out with someone or something but she wants you not to move on
SHE IS PLAYING YOU
move on dont pick up her phone calls or you will never get over her and you will be still hanging on
you need some time away from her
tell her how you feel, and if she’s just like "okay…?" and then never does anything, then you need to move on. because if she broke up with you because she didnt feel the same way that you did after two months, its either because she wasnt trying hard enough to get to know you, or shes just not worth your time.
stop letting her call you. let her know that its making you uncomfortable, and if you want to stay friends, you can’t do that. move on and find other girls. chances are, that’s what she’ll do too. however, if she still has feelings for you, she’ll let you know that, and you two can be together again. dont’ ignore her, though. then she’ll just think you hate her overall, and girls HATE to be ignored by guys!
If you are under age 25, move on.
If you are 25-35 years of age, move on.
If you are over 35 years old, move on.
You should be looking for someone who is life-long compatible, sounds like she does not see that in you. In five years you may not remember her name.
If you are under age 18, well, kid, shouldn’t you be worried about what you want to do in life and become capable of supporting a family before potentially, and erroneously, starting one?
Well if she still ‘loves’ you then there must be a different reasaon to why she dumped you not that she doesnt feel the same way. Obviously she still likes you if she calls you every night, because she wants to talk to you. Next time when she calls you try to bring upwhy she dumped you, but be careful this could be a touchy subject depending on how long ago you guys broke up. Then if does tell you try to fix that, but don’t change who you are. Smile a lot when you talk to her in person and laugh at her jokes. Touch her gently, but not dirty wise (so her arm, or just above the knee) This should give her the hint that you like her as more then a friend. Eventually you should try and tell her how you feel and hopeully she’ll want to get back together with you.
Good luck, hope this helped
first of all how do you start to love someone in only two months. Now a days people seem to throw that word around so much. Ask your self in the two months that you have known her, how much do you really know about her? Look deep in yourself and see if it really is love or just a deep emotional like for her. If she told you she did no love you anymore then take it as that. Its really hard and im sure your hurting but you have to look out for yourself. The only way you’ll get better is if you tell her to stop calling you so that you can move on with your life. Seems like she is just having you around for the convenience. Have some more respect for yourself and stand up to her and move on. Your friends are right. Im sure they know you way more then she does. Listen to them. Good Luck.
I went through an identical situation with my ex, and let me tell you, being "friends" with someone you love just does not work out. As long as you two stay in contact, there will always be an awkward mist in the air, so to speak. Especially if she gets a new boyfriend and still wants to hang out with you. Your best bet, to avoid nothing but pain and heartache, is to cut all contact with her, and to try dating someone else. I understand you still love her, but if she can’t/isn’t willing or just won’t commit to you, it’s not worth pursuing her. Also, my ex and I tried numerous times at fixing our relationship and friendship, and things just kept getting worse. In the end, the best thing I did was to just ignore all calls, texts, e-mails and instant messages. It’s a painful process to cut off someone you love, but if they don’t love you back, it just makes the hardest decision the right one.
Ok i have had this happen to me
u tell her u still ”really” like her and cant b friends without feeling more ”at least for now’
she dumped u this is your time to b selfish and do what makes u happy and u guys should b togather or take a break from talking if she dosent understand that tell her to get lost