Getting your ex girlfriend back can be your worst nightmare if you do not take the right steps at the right time. It is like trying to fix a piece of broken glass: while you may join the pieces, the cracks will still remain. However, you can make your ex girlfriend miss you again like crazy and even want you back. With some discipline, your relationship with her can become like it used to be before the breakup.
In all the steps you take, do not display any signs of being desperate for her as this will make things worse. If you nag her and try to make her feel sorry for you, you are missing the point. The crucial weapon you need is confidence accompanied with super schemes.
Here are some psychological tricks you can use to your advantage and make your ex girlfriend miss you again:
Stay away from her for a while
This step is very important. You need to give her some time and space to reflect over what really happened between the two of you. Whatever you do, do not try to send her flowers, call her or send her text messages. Although this step is hard, try to control your emotions. Both the two of you need this time and space. Not only does the time make you think strategically, it also gives her time to miss you.
Take approximately three weeks before contacting her again. Do not overdo the stay away part, because your ex might give up on waiting for you. If you know her habits, which you should, then you would know where to find her.
If she tries to contact you within that period, be brief in your answers; show very little or no interest at all.
Do not dance to her tune
When you break up with your girlfriend, she expects you to act in certain ways. She will be waiting to see you sad, bored, less enthusiastic and stressed. Try to play happy and content with life. If she finds out that you are not as troubled as she expected she will grow some interest in you. She will feel as if she is missing out on something.
The next steps involve contacting her and the things to do after that.
Try to change her attitude towards you
Take a close look at yourself, you were once the guy she fell in love with and now you are separated. Try to figure out what may have happened in the relationship. Become the man she fell in love with in the first place. This way you will prove to her you have changed. Show her you care for her and are willing to make things work.
If you were away for a while, then you suddenly surprise her with all the kindness you can offer, she will start missing every second she is away from you.
Do not use another relationship to lure her
You may hang out with other women, especially friends, but do not get into another relationship. Trying to make her jealous with another may annoy her and make her move on. Just try and show that life will continue even without her, but do not show her that you can love another woman too fast. This way she will want to spend more time with you.
Getting your girlfriend back may not happen in a jiffy, it takes lots of confidence to execute very shrewd tactics. If your final plan is to make her fall in love with you, make sure you MEAN every word you tell her.
Note from Exnomore.com team:
We have had quite a few people contacting us about their breakup. We are trying our best to reply everyone with helpful advice, but sometimes due to lack of information we are not able to do so effectively. As we often say, no one knows your situation better than you, and we also understand that you may not feel comfortable to share intimate details with us. That’s why we encourage you to read and do some homework on your own as well. Please read through the various articles on this blog for more guidance.